Acadianmom wrote:Shirl, you are right that perms are child abuse. I only had two and cut up so much they gave up on me. I hated to have anyone comb or brush my hair.
Martha
OMG, Shirl and Martha,
definitely child abuse!! And I am
not kidding, although you both may be.
I can remember one of those torture devices shown in the photo at my house growing up. At one time, we even had one of those giant metal hair dryers like you could find in a salon in those days.
My mother was a beautician, and I remember that she was
always fussing and fooling with my hair (hair cuts, perms, etc., the works. I think she liked to try things out on me before she tried them out on a customer). From the time I was a very young child, maybe as young as six or seven. I
hated it, and, of course, I had
no say in the matter. I think this went on until I was in my early teens, and even though I was a pretty agreeable child most of the time, I tossed a majorly ugly screaming tantrum one time when Mom told me that I (again. . . ugh) needed a perm.
It was at about then that the constant fussing with my hair finally stopped. I think she finally got the message.
To this day, I
absolutely and
totally hate and despise anyone touching my head and doing
anything with my hair. To the extent that I have not even had a hair cut in at least twenty years - I can't really remember the last time I had one, it might have been longer ago than that.
My hair has gotten quite thin as I have gotten older, and seems to stay at about waist length. I just braid it and pin it to the top of my head in a bun, then off I go. Quick, easy-peasy, no muss no fuss.
I have always washed my hair at night - every night in the shower - towel it, and go to bed with it still wet. It is dry by morning.
I have never suffered any ill effects from washing my hair at bedtime.
Anne