by gemmari » Wed Jul 16, 2014 12:52 pm
I grew up with low-mid content wolfdogs and german shepherds, one of which was partially grown when I got him and flunked out of schutzhund training because he wasn't clear headed enough when he was working. Living and working with those personalities of dogs required a certain set of skills. We had a trainer that worked with the family, teaching us how to work through issues when we had them, primarily issues of dominance and aggression. I thought I knew about working with difficult dogs. LOL. I knew about working with those types of difficult dogs. I didn't know a thing about working with such a nervous abused fluffy. It's been a learning process, especially making corrections super-mild or just ignoring. Now the worst correction in my arsenal is a hard stare and a quiet "phooey" in a normal speaking tone which is essentially just a 'no treat' marker word and the removal of my attention. And I'm still a little stunned when that's enough, just knowing that I'm displeased and even the 'no treat' marker is ONLY for when I know he knows the correct response and chose to ignore me. I expect him to keep all his feet on the ground unless he's invited to jump and expect him to sit on cue no matter how nervous or excited he gets. I like the idea of tying him so he could be inside or outside of the camper and then going inside myself. He doesn't like me out of sight, even lays on the bathmat while I shower.
RetiredHappy - We have considered getting him a buddy but it would need to be one who is already well socialized with people, dogs, and new places. That's hard to find in an adult dog. Most people who take the time to socialize their dogs well as puppies don't give them up later. We are on the list for a retired or flunked service dog but it's a really really long wait list, like years. Two adult dogs isn't really much more work than one adult dog but a puppy young enough for me to do the critical socialization and training periods is a lot of work to take care of and train. And while I'm normally physically with my dog, I'm usually doing my own things except the times I have set aside for walks and/or training. I have my eye on a large-breed doodle pup as my next dog if I get impatient on the waiting list but so far, I'm not quite ready to put in the puppy raising time.
Retetotry - When we got the fluffball, he was afraid of all new people until they ignored him long enough for him to check them out on his own. Our teen part-time-child was 8 years old then. And when she was here, she had friends in and out a lot. Plus, my friends have kids. I inadvertently taught him to jump on kids searching for treats because I gave every kid who came into the house strict orders not to chase after him AND pepperoni slices or hot dogs or some other really high-value treat and told them to give him treats when he was willing to let them pet him. They would come in and be playing video games or watching a movie or whatever and he would be searching their pockets and purses for the hidden treats. When out walking, I would have my treat pouch full of things like shredded cheese or pieces of hot dogs and every one who asked to pet the fluffy was given treats so every person he tolerated touching him magically had awesome food for him until he was more willing to sit still for it, even curious whether strangers were hiding stuff in their pockets if their hands seemed empty. Eventually, we then retrained him to greet people politely but the first thing was getting him past the automatic fear response. I think getting the neighborhood girl to play games on her ipad on your floor (maybe with a REALLY good SUPER yummy smelling treat, if he's very reluctant) is a great start.
Marie