Hi Becky,
Sorry about your loss, but happy you are going to trying rving on your own. I don't think you regret it. I think it is already in your blood.
I tow a 35' 5th wheel with my 4 door 3/4 ton diesel truck. I was used to towing boat trailers, horse trailers and cattle trailers and on occasion pulled travel trailers in the past. So, towing a 5th wheel was natural for me. I am still practicing the backing up, because I "cheated" sometimes by not using my mirrors (being totally dependent on using them) all the time to back up. Since my 5th is 12 plus feet in height, I totally dependent and use my mirrors to backup, along with getting out the truck to check my blind side and back when I don't have any assistance in backing up. Actually, most of the time I prefer to not have any assistance unless i am familiar with or know the person is knowledgeable in backing up procedures.
Always take your time! Don't let anyone get you in a hurry! "Hooking up" the 5th is easier than a bumper type hitch (in my opinion). Make wide turns. Use your mirrors! I never drive faster than 65, but usually stay closer to 60 mph. Practice turning, backing, stopping, etc in a large parking lot using. May I suggest taking an rving driving course to gain confidence and skills.
Happy you have joined us here.
Please feel free to PM me or ask questions here if you have any questions. I happy to share my experience with you.
Carolyn
35' Cougar 5th Wheel, F-250
Escapees, Good Sam, RVing Women
Slept in my RV