by Nasoosie » Sat Jun 18, 2011 8:04 am
My daughter and I hashed this dilemma over on our trip back from FL. I get really nervous, on back country roads, if I see several cars backed up behind me, even if I'm doing the speed limit, so I always look for a straightaway with a dotted line on our side, slow down and put on right-hand signal to let those behind me know that they can now pass. Usually there is no safe place to pull off the road on back two-lane roads in the boonies, so this is the only safe way to allow passing. If I come across a rest area, and I am going at a safe speed to turn in, I will do that. Mandy said I had no need to allow cars behind me to make me nervous and cause me to pull over, and, legally, I guess I don't, but emotionally, I need to have nobody on my butt! Some get confused by my slowing down on the straightaway, and just hang back there. So then I figure it's their problem if they didn't take advantage of the opportunity to pass.
Highways are a piece of cake....I can either drive in the center lane of three or more through a city with many turn-offs and ramps on in the right-most lane, or stay in the right-hand lane on the open highways with multiple lanes. If I enounter a vehicle actually traveling slower than I am going (rare!) I still have the option of signaling into the passing lane to go by it.
Another problem is allowing for merging from a ramp-on when I am in the right-hand lane. I was tending to slow down to allow the merging cars a chance to get on, and Mandy said I should keep my speed steady as it's the merging cars that need to gauge their speed during a merge. She said the cars behind me don't need my slowing down or braking to allow the merge, and I believe she is right.
Very interesting to read people's ideas! And I believe, as Mandy also told me, drive the safest way you can, whether uphill or downhill or on the flat, to make sure you keep yourself in control and safe, and don't let anyone else on the road make you do stupid things to facilitate their positions. I like KD's comment, "Never let the frenzied drivers push you and whatever you need to do to drive safely do it, the hell with the other drivers".
Life is about learning to dance in the rainHappy travels!