okay i think i've exhausted all the campsite choices for my area (winchester/stephens city, va) and have come to three sites: candy hill campg, battle of cedar creek campg, and white oak trading post/campground.
candy hill got by far the best ratings. it has restrooms, laundry, dump station, sewer hookups, campstore, wifi, pets allowed, 50 amp power on some sites, and LP gas and firewood to buy, and a swimming pool. i started an online registration to see what the cost was for 27 days (the longest period one can reserve over the i-net) for a back-in site with water, electric, sewer: (with good sam disc.) $802.50; for a similar site with 50 amp available, again with discount: $856. candy hill offers a work camp program
for an individual, the first 24 hours worked in a week pay for that week's rent. any hours over that are paid minimum wage (which here is $7.25).
battle of cedar creek campground had one very poor review out of three, so i'd have to check out the campground if it becomes an option. it has a store, pool, LP gas, firewood, sewer hookups, laundry, cable, pets welcome, dump station, wifi, propane delivery, book and DVD exchange. i figured that the cost for a spot offering water, sewer, and electric to cost $900/mo; one offering water and electric, $750/mo. i dont know about any workamp opportunities.
the white oak campground is just a mile away from where i live now. it doesnt have a website so i couldnt find out the ammenities or rates. i do know, tho, that they support fulltimers because many of the RVs there are set up to stay. and of course there's the camp store.
so those are my options. mind you, i intend to pay for an RV in full, once i'm able.
for groceries, i figure that, if i plan the shopping list, i can get away with budgeting $100/mo. and there are several thrift shops in the area; some offer more household items than others. then there's a discount food store in front royal where i can stock up on some food items and sundries.