Ali, all you can do is offer. You can't make them accept the offer. I'm glad you are good with the outcome. Just keep the door open and see what happens. Linda
"Nothing ventured, nothing gained." "You can lead a horse to water, but....." and all those other platitudes.
You did what you could, Ali, and it is certainly her loss if she doesn't respond to your outreaching hand some day. At least you can be assured you tried your best. It has to make you feel good about the striving.
Life is about learning to dance in the rain Happy travels!