GOOD MORNING - GOOD MORNING --GOOD MORNING-----------
First Barb--- I love your teasing & will take it about anything BUT alcohol!!!!!!!!!!! I have seen way toooo many people abuse it- & have delt with way too many people who have an addiction to it! In my family there seems to be a strong problem with it----- & I don't touch it or go near it----or anyone useing it!!!!!!!
The morning that you chose to tease me about alcohol------I had received a call the night before that my older brother who lives about two hours from us--- who is an alcoholic---and borrowed my 94 year old Mother's car & wrecked my Mother's car while driving drunk & without a drivers lic-----& he had let the insurance lapse on the car-----while Mother had let him borrow it----& it didn't have current tags-----& he had hid the car on his property-----as he was probably involved in a hit & run!!!!!!! Oh----- & it gets much better from there--------
I attended Family of alcoholics meeting for years------- to be able to leave my first abusive husband & then how to deal with alcoholic family members------- & NOT be enablers to them!!!!
One of the many things I learned over the years at those meetings is to never ever joke about the use of alchol---or make light of th4e use of it--- & to state you position up front & make it clear to anyone who does choose to use alchol--- how you feel about it!!!!!!
If you want to or choose to use alchol------that is fine -----but when ever anyone decides they need to use alchol where I am----- you will see me quickly get up & leave!!!!!!!! I don't want any part of it!!!!!!!!
My husband that I am married to now & have been over 35 years------- was a bar tender when I met him----& co-owner of a club-at that time--he has not done that type of work for years now------- he has the same feeling about alchol & those who choose to use it-------& is sorry he ever was co-owner of a club------ but he didn't have the same belief in Jesus as he does now either!
If people don't abuse alchol------& want to NOT drive & drink & do it some where other than around me------- I could care less--------But if I see you drinking & get into a car to drive------ I'll be all over you like flyes on shi#!!!!!!!!!!! So quick you won't know what hit you!!!!!!!
I have also lost a family member who never ever took a drink in their life who was killed by a drunk driver!!!!!!
Alchol is no joke to me!!!!!!!! In any way shape or form! And I have seen very-- very-- very few people who have been able to control the the alchol they use--but the alchol usually controls them-if they want to believe it or not!!!!!!
We have chosen to NOT use alchol in any form----- & we don't care to be around anyone who does us it----that is our choice!!
I think a campfire is a good thing-------as we have had a million camp fires over the years--while camping & with sooo many friends---but we never had alchol at any of them------ I guess I personally didn't like the joking over use of alchol----& I won't ever go to your campfire again----on this forum-------- you girls can do anything you want to do & if cyber drining floats your boat- then go for it---------I will join you all in everything BUT that!!!!
Those are just my own personal feelings------ & that is just how it is------- hasn't got a damned thing to do with our friendship!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't talk behind anyone's back---or PM anyone to talk about anyone else----- I just say what I have to say & in front of God & everyone------ & I'm a shoot from the hip person--you either like me or you don't--------I like to have a really good time--------& have tons of fun BUT none of that has alchol use with it!!!!!!!!!
PS--- when I was asked to come get my brother---out of trouble---- I said-he got him self into this mess-by HIS OWN CHOICES & he can get himself out of it!!!!!!!!
Many years ago-----I was used by every alcholic in my family to help them & bail them out of their jams---it has taken me a long time to get to the point of saying NO------ (now when I got of the phone I went & threw up----because he is in some really deep shi# from his drinking-------but he made the choices & I can't help him!!!!!! Do I care-----yes------do I love him-yes---but for 60 some years this man has made the wrong choices because of alchol & how it rules his life & every activity in his life & his health is terrible because of the alchol use also!!!!!!!
So am I a radical about the use of alchol---maybe so--------but many who have had to live with the effects of alchol on their own lives when they don't use alchol --feel the very same way I do---- & I have met them at meetings all over!!!
I'll joke my friend with you & have a good time with ya------about most anything if it doesn't hurt anyone---- & it doesn't have anything to do with alchol!!!!!!!
Well we are off to work at the warehouse again today------ it is raining here again today----rained all day yesterday & all night & is still raining----------
But the really good news is-- we got a call this morning that a couple is very interested in our home-they just sold their farm & love our old home & want to come & look!!!!!!! THANK YOU JESUS--ANSWERED PRAYER!!!!!!!
Well hubby is waiting on me-------- I'm off------ everyone stay safe----- & drive safe--
---later OO