Thank you all for your warm replies and welcome. Now I'm asking myself why I didn't seek out women like you sooner. As you all know people look at us as a novelty, an oddity....it's getting better, I think there are more of us out there these days. I'm really looking forward to meeting up down the road sometime.
WL please tell Monty that Lily is all over that idea, she's always up for a romp. I just came back from the vet, Lily gulped down a whole 12oz bag of foil wrapped peppermint patties foil and all. Pretty sure she's going to be fine. Better than last Christmas when she ate a glass ornament.
Colliemom, I was a Girl Scout leader for ten years (based on the fact, I think, that nobody else wanted to do it). Looking back I must have been nuts, I still don't like GS cookies...sweet memories though.