by Nasoosie » Sat Apr 17, 2010 8:01 am
SIGH! Such beautiful pictures of a beautiful girl who looks just like Mama!
I know it will be hard for you when your baby leaves the nest and begins her own life----I am still getting over my last baby, my son, driving down this driveway in a U-Haul towing his car when he was 18 years old, heading to Orlando, FL, to live in the house I have down there that had been my father's place. I truly thought I was going to die as I believed my reason for living was over. I have never been so depressed before or since, and may I never sink to those depths again.
But here I am, some 13 years later, still giving in to those feelings of uselessness now and then. However, when I retire, I will be able to travel to them, whether they like it, or not! Visits now and then will be so wonderful! Neither of my kids I raised are married as yet, but are living with wonderful future spouses who, I am hoping, will become parents to my grandkids as soon as they tie the knots! We have to remember that we spent our whole adult lives getting these fledglings ready to leave our nest, and, as is the cruelty of nature, just when we get that skill mastered, off they go, if we did our jobs right! Redefining who we are, or who we have become, is the skill to work on now. I intend to return to my former nomadic self with my truck and trailer!
Thanks for sharing your pics, and I am looking forward to seeing the mother of the bride--the planner of that extravaganza--in some pictures!
Life is about learning to dance in the rainHappy travels!