Yes, Sandi, congrats on your daughter's attendance at Stanford for Law School.
I also agree that children should be allowed to learn at their own speed, and never be criticized for being "different" in their learning progress!!!
I'll add one more story on my early education. When I was in Junior High School, we were assigned a major book report that was to be a large factor on our final grade. We had to give a written report, along with an oral report.
The book assigned was "Lord Jim", by Joseph Conrad. Man, this book was a boat anchor, and dry as dust.
Nonetheless, I struggled through it to the end, bored with every page, then spent hours and hours writing my book report. I was actually quite proud of it, I had gone into some detail explaining/analyzing the happenings and motivations of the characters, which I thought was pretty good. LOL - even if I do say so myself.
I was just a pretty young kid at the time.
When it came my turn, I got up in front of the class, gave my oral report, and turned (with a big, triumphant smile on my face) to the teacher to hand her my written report, as everyone else had done.
I was surprised - shocked even - to see my teacher glaring at me. Unfortunately (for me, I guess) a film of this book had come out not too long before, and there had been a major write-up of it in I think it was "Life" magazine.
In front of the whole class, my teacher verbally chastised me for copying the article verbatim from "Life" to use for my book report, and said that I was getting an "F" for the report, and an "F" in the class for cheating. At the time, I hadn't even read the article, and I didn't even know that the film had been reviewed by the magazine.
I was totally and completely mortified - if not destroyed. The whole class laughed at my obvious discomfiture.
Later, after I had seen the film, and read the "Life" review, I realized that the teacher hadn't herself read the "Life" review (nor the novel, either), because (as usually happens) the film (and thus the "Life" review) was very
very different from the book.
And, of course, my book report was accurate for the
book - and not at all like the magazine review or the
film.
LOL. I guess I am still mad about that one.
If she ever bothered to later read the magazine review, or to see the film later, she never said so to me.
BUT. She gave me a decent grade in the class (which I should not have got with a "F" book report), which tells me that she maybe recognized her error, but was too proud to admit it to a child.
Anne