A day late and a dollar short as the saying goes
You may want to skip this post. It's sad and maddening about health care in our current environment...
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I'm still in Illinois after spending some time with Eileen in Wisconsin. For those not on Facebook, my mother passed away on July 21st. Everything that happened was made 100 times worse due to Covid, and I could not see her or advocate for her until she went to hospice. As you may remember, she broke her arm in June. She had surgery to put in a rod and then was sent to the only rehab that had an opening. The place was a hell hole, and after a month or so, she basically gave up. Stopped eating, stopped rehab, stopped answering her phone, etc and the place ignored her complaints about pain. She ended up back in the hospital where it was determined her kidneys were only functioning at 10% and the pain was from a tear in her bowel.
I was
finally allowed to see her in the hospital, but she was no longer talking, etc and was sent to hospice, were she passed 4 days later.
There was no wake, but I was allowed to sit with her for about 3 hours on the day of burial. No actual funeral either, but my cousins on her side of the family, as well as her lifelong friend from high school and a former coworker, 11 people in all, were at the cemetary.
Such a sad ending for a woman who lived to 90 years old and was hurt trying to help someone else.
In general I'm doing OK. Been busy cleaning out her apartment, which was a pain also due to Covid, but at least that's done, and I'm now dealing with financial matters.
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I'm hoping to be back on the road by the 18th, depending on where I can go, quarantine-wise, reservations available, etc.
Stay safe everyone.