by MandysMom » Mon Sep 16, 2019 2:57 am
Thank you for the birthday wishes! Because it was also the first anniversary since Mel's funeral, it did have me a bit subdued. I got up and dressed for church and discovered son Chris starting to make me breakfast in bed. I said, let's wait until I get home. One of the hymns had me crying, but I got through it. Chris made me soft creamy scrambled eggs, just like I love them and some bacon. Very much enjoyed. Long time church friends are taking Chris and I out to dinner tomorrow night for my birthday, to Cattleman's, which Mel and I enjoyed many times. In the afternoon, friends I visited in Oregon in June called to talk about both the one year mark and my birthday as well as meeting up with them and our bus group in Quartzite in January. Following that call, my son in MN and his son, my 11 year old grandson, called to chat. Nicks daughter was off at a birthday party so it was fun to talk with my son and grandson. Grandson wants me to visit so he can help me catch a Northern Pike like he caught a week or so ago. We talked about his ice cream maker he acquired recently and I shared with him my Moms recipes and how my Dad, Oliver's Great Grandpa, would churn the ice cream then bed it in ice to age. Lots of fun talking to both, and of course I think I've got the smartest, most articulate grandson on earth! Made for a nice day. Then Chris and I made sugar free coconut ice cream and I made sweet chaffles to go with it. Next wave of sadness Wednesday, the 1 year mark since Mel was buried and Chris and I will visit his grave. That will complete the major firsts and the first year. I'm already planning to try to make next September more celebratory, though the month will always have special thoughts.
Velda