BarbaraRose wrote: I am frustrated this week. My lot rent went up more than I expected, my internet service doubled this month, my electric bill tripled (from using the furnace) and now my health insurance doubled for 2019. That adds up to almost $300 per month extra now. I think I can do something about the internet service (change providers) but the others I am stuck with. Will have to be a lot more careful with my money now. (I did get a whole $.50 cent raise at work! Yippy!)
Yikes. Barbie. Sorry to hear about the big hit to your budget. Unexpected expenses are always the pits.
I don't know if you are low income, or what insurance provider you have, but you might be able to apply for a subsidy for your medical insurance if it is through "Covered California":
https://www.coveredca.com/individuals-and-families/getting-covered/health-care-costs/Couple of things that I do to save on expenses is to turn my hot water heater down to "pilot" (I have a gas hot water heater) during the day, and turn it back up when I get home so as to have a hot shower at bedtime. After showering, back to pilot it goes.
This might not work for you, since you have a room-mate, but you could try turning your furnace off at bedtime, and just heat your bedroom with one of those free-standing radiator-type heaters:
https://www.walmart.com/ip/Optimus-700W-Mini-Portable-Heater-with-Oil-Filled-Radiator/37948255Electric heat is expensive, of course. If your furnace is gas, with an electric blower, or even if your furnace is all-electric (with an electric blower), one of these free-standers might be less expensive than a full-on furnace in the long run.
Another thought might be to sell your place there, and move to Hemet, Ca. There are many mobile home developments in Hemet where the lot is sold with the mobile. When you buy the lot your mobile is on, your space rent can't go up every year - because you own the lot.
There are also a lot of wealthy retirees that live in Hemet - the whole town is geared towards this clientele. Probably lots of ladies looking for a haircut!
My Dad lived in Hemet for many years in a mobile home, where he also owned the lot.
Of course, these lots are about the same size as a lot where you pay rent. But, since you own the lot, you don't have to worry about rent increases all of the time.
I really feel for you, you have had some rough times over the last few years that I have been reading your posts.
You have a lot of spunk, and I wish you well.
Anne