by Pooker » Thu May 10, 2018 8:46 am
I know just what you guys mean! Sometimes I leave the house and realize there isn't a soul in the whole world who knows where I am! And when we are home alone it could be hours or days before anyone calls or visits or even misses us! I, too, have thought about those devices, but I had a friend who had one for years and never used it for an emergency! Each time she fell and couldn't get up, she would call me if she could reach her phone, and forget about pushing the little button! In any case, after the firemen come out to pick someone up a time or two they tell you they won't respond any longer! So even if you have a magic button there's no guarantee you'll get help if police and fire have you low on their priority list! I live in a community that is mainly senior citizens and if you aren't bleeding, there's no shooting involved, or you aren't reporting chest pains you may or may not get help. Sad, isn't it?
I sure don't want yet another thing hanging around my neck either! My reading glasses are always hanging there, and at rallies, etc. I have an ID of some sort hanging there. You bend over to get something out of a drawer and hang yourself up on handles, etc. I suppose the watch band model would work, but I already have a watch on one wrist and I would like to be able to wear bracelets on the other instead of what looks like a second watch. Perhaps one of those companies would come out with a combined one that could replace a regular watch as well as become an alarm? And some of these companies only work at your home base, not when you're traveling or shopping or whatever.
Years ago, back East, the Senior Center in our small community had a program where they paired folks with health issues or who were alone. My Mom was paired with a lady who was a shut-in and her children lived far away. They only met over the phone initially, but agreed on a time each day that was acceptable to both of them and they had a daily phone check on each other. If my Mom was going out for the day, she would call this lady and tell her not to expect the call that day, or set up a different time, etc. They each had the other's list of phone numbers of who to contact as well as a next door neighbor or someone who could go check. In a pinch the local police would (should) make a wellness check. Mom did this for a year or so until it became bothersome for her. The other lady didn't drive and my Mom found herself feeling obligated to become her go-to person to run errands, take her to medical app'ts, etc. By then, though, she was watching my boys after school and they were instructed on what to do - give her orange juice if she was acting "funny" or call me at work. I'm sure she felt quite guilty for ditching her contact lady.
We all want our independence and resent interference in our daily lives. We want to be free to come and go as we please whether we are full-timing or in a stick and stone, but we do need to address this problem!
Pooker
Evie
Southern California