Irmi, other than the time I got to spend with you, it has been a very frustrating day for sure.
I called the Honda dealership about noon today to find out if my car was ready to pickup. My yahoo salesman told me they were finishing it up and by the time I got there, it would be ready to pick up. Called Irmi and told her I was on my way to get her. We would go by and pick up the FIT, then drop off the rental car and end up at my rig. We were going to have a glass of wine to celebrate. Got to the dealership only to find out it was not ready and would not be ready until tomorrow. I told them I had to return my rental car today. They said they would put me in a rental car on their dime through Enterprise. I called the office in The Villages where I had rented my car. That guy said to just get a PO from the Honda dealership and he would just switch out the paperwork. The guys at the Honda dealership said they had to deal with the Enterprise office in Ocala. That I needed to turn in the rental car I had there and get another one. Got to the Enterprise office to find out I could stay in the same car. Was just a matter of paperwork change. Don't know why we couldn't have done this over the phone. Also don't know why I was told my car would be ready when I got there. If they haven't called me from the dealership by noon tomorrow, I will call them. When I do go pick it up, going to go by Irmi and Steve's to show them. That will be the best part of all this. Getting to spend time with Irmi and Steve again.
It has also been a very frustrating day dealing with Mom. She was having really bad chest pains on Saturday night from what she said. I asked her why she had not called youngest brother. She said it was because she did not want to be a bother. I told her she would not be bothering brother. What would bother him was if he came in and found her dead because she didn't call and get him to take her to the hospital. Told her I was going to call youngest brother and let him know what was going on. I did. He called her and told her same thing. Apparently he is getting the full Martyr treatment now because he called tonight as we were driving home to vent about how frustrated he was dealing with her. He made the statement that it was like dealing with a child and all she wanted was to be waited on. I apologized to him because he is having to go through this now. He is seeing what I have been dealing with for years. She refuses to do anything for herself. Youngest brother said for me not to worry about her because he would take care of her even if it meant putting her in assisted living facility. She has told him emphatically she does not want to go into assisted living. She tells him she is lonely and that she has been told she is nothing but a bother to her children. That is not what she has been told. She has been told she needs to take some responsibility for her own care if she wants to live by herself. She is reading into that that she is a bother to us. Poor youngest brother!
Well, I am through venting.
Helps to get it off my chest. Thanks for listening y'all.