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Postby Echo » Tue Aug 28, 2012 10:50 am

Thank you all again for everything. At about 4 this morning they had to intubate her and put her on a ventilator. They have her sedated and will keep her that way for now. She has too many red blood cells (like last time) so they're going to take the excess out. I am working 4-8:30 and am going to go see her as soon as I get off work. David is coming down tonite and will most likely spend the nite. She's also got some fluid retention again so they're going to take that off too. I don't think it's anywhere as bad as it was the first time around in 2010. I really wish she had talked to me about the COPD. She said they didn't sit down with her an explain it :( And again I don't know when she was told, here or when she was in the hospital in 2010 or last year. I'm sure I'm going to get an earful when David gets here. I have it coming. In case anyone is wondering Shade puppy is doing ok. Our neighbor Lill let her out last nite for me since I didn't know when I'd be home. Both she and Michelle have offered to let her out anytime. Right now she's sprawled out on the bench with me, darn space hog, lol. That's it for now. Will keep updating here as I know more.

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Postby Sandersmr » Tue Aug 28, 2012 10:55 am

How scary for all of you. All of you will remain in my prayers.
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Postby Liz » Tue Aug 28, 2012 10:57 am

Thank you Kelly. I will keep you and your mom in my prayers. Take care of yourself.
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Postby Redwahine » Tue Aug 28, 2012 10:59 am

Thanks for the update. Praying for all of you. Keep your chin up :D
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Postby Barbzeee » Tue Aug 28, 2012 11:36 am

Kelly, Sure are praying that everything will be ok.. and DON'T blame yourself.. David I'm sure will be upset but it's not YOUR fault... Your Mom knows that smoking was a NO NO... I just pray that she will stop..for her own health..and safe being... I am keeping you BOTH in my prayers...COPD is not a thing to ignore.. Take it easy Kelly and take care of YOU too... WE all here are wishing and praying for the BEST for BOTH of YOU...

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Postby mitch5252 » Tue Aug 28, 2012 1:25 pm

I'm saying a prayer for your Mom and you.
Thanks for keeping us posted.
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Postby Bethers » Tue Aug 28, 2012 1:55 pm

Keeping you both in my prayers.
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Postby Dawn309 » Tue Aug 28, 2012 4:09 pm

Kelly, hated to hear they had to intubate your Mom and put her on a respirator. All of you are definitely in my prayers for her speedy recovery. Like the other ladies have said, this is not your fault. David will calm down and realize that. You definitely need to take care of yourself too so try to get some rest when you can.
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Postby Excel » Tue Aug 28, 2012 5:42 pm

Kelly...you really need to have that tooth taken care of before you get an infection. This would be a good time while your Mom is being taken care of at the hospital. That way when she comes home you can give her your full attention & not be in pain or wondering when you'll be able to see a dentist. You must take care of yourself so you can be there for your Mom ...... lots of prayers & positive thoughts going your way......
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Postby mizdeb » Tue Aug 28, 2012 5:57 pm

Thank you for the update my prayers are headed your way. Tell mom to take care of herself and listen to the Dr's. COPD is not something to mess with. I also want to add my encouragement to go get that tooth taken care of. You can't be of help to Mom if you are in pain yourself.
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Postby Paulette » Tue Aug 28, 2012 6:59 pm

Prayes and hugs! Take care of that tooth and dont worry about David. He's just worried like you are and it's easier to take it out on you!
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Postby chalet05 » Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:07 pm

So sorry to read this news, but do take care of yourself! I can't imagine why anyone would think this is your fault - your mom is an adult! Hang in there.
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Postby Cougarfan » Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:34 pm

chalet05 wrote:So sorry to read this news, but do take care of yourself! I can't imagine why anyone would think this is your fault - your mom is an adult! Hang in there.


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Postby avalen » Tue Aug 28, 2012 8:09 pm

thanks for the update, sending prayers your direction
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Postby Echo » Tue Aug 28, 2012 11:33 pm

11:45, just walked in the door. David is with mom now. He'll be on the road in about 5 hours, I hope he gets some sleep. We stopped at Shoney's for a bite to eat. So, here it is as I currently understand it... They thought it was her COPD so that's what I thought. And after reading that packet the nurse gave me it made sense. But it's not. At this point, while waiting on test results, they do not know what it is. She is sedated, her bp is great, her oxygen is normal. They've run a bunch of tests and the doc in charge of her says it is not the COPD. Hopefully tomorrow or within the next couple of days they will know more. Brain scan/MRI, CT scan I think? Xrays, blood tests, etc. I don't know all of them. They do not know why her red blood cell count is so high or why there was so much CO2 in her system. I'm going back in the morning to talk to the doc and hopefully he can explain it to me. I was kinda floored when the nurse said it wasn't the COPD. If it had been, her being on the bipap last night would have helped. But she wasn't doing better with it so that's why they intubated her. We asked if they had any idea about how long she would be intubated and the nurse said figure on several days at this point. I don't want to say too much more until I talk to the doc and get a better understanding of all this. But this is what I know so far. Hopefully they'll have more test results tomorrow, especially the MRI tho I don't know how long that usually takes.

David did chew me out some, mostly about me. I know he's worried about me too. Fussed at me for eating at Mc D's yesterday, said no more. I know he eats there too but I imagine it's salads, lol. I didn't tell him about my jaw which hasn't really bothered me at all today or my earache. I do plan on going to MSGH (clinic) to get it looked at. Probably next Monday as it's by appointment only and you have to call at least a day in advance. I have Mondays off from chaosmart. Lill let Shade out to pee for me. I wasn't expecting to stop and eat so I'd told her she'd be ok till I got home. The nurse put David's # on file in case they can't get a hold of me.

It's going to be strange not having mom here. It was while she was in Texas. Looking at her tonite was hard. I got to visit her once when she was in the hospital the first time. The 2nd time, with her heart attack, she went by herself as I had to stay at the lodge and keep working. The last time I remember her being in the hospital was for her hysto when I was 14/15. I know she's getting the help she needs, the medicines and everything. But it's still scary that she's at this point. David and I need to be her rocks now. We talked a lil about that and I told him I know I need to step up. Take care of me and take care of her. I wish we'd had more time to talk and visit. I've not seen him since sometime last month I think? I missed a call from the TennCare office but I'll call them tomorrow. David is insisting on keeping her cell phone with her at the hospital. :? I'll have to get the # off her voicemail. I don't know if they'll talk to me? I'm her daughter and she's incapacitated so... And I'm the one who signed the application so we'll see. Just wish I had better cell reception with my cell. Ok, I'm rambling, sorry. I'll end it here. Thank you all again, very much, for the thoughts and many prayers. I will most likely update again tomorrow afternoon sometime.

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