by HorizonSeeker » Fri Apr 27, 2012 6:19 am
Wow, Sarah, that's a scary story. I was lucky to have a stepson who is a police captain and a dog with a weak bladder. About a week after my dh's funeral I took Gus out for a walk. I noticed that I didn't have the trash can, which I had set out earlier, in the correct spot for pick up the next morning. When I walked over to move the can I realized it was too light as I had cleaned out a cabinet full of old coffee mugs (I no longer needed the best dad and best grandpa mugs and Goodwill stores are already full of them) and I remembered the can being nearly full. When I looked inside I saw that it was half full and had potato peelings and other remnants of a large homecooked meal (again not my style). It was late a night but stepson was at work so I called him to say my trash can had been stolen. He tried very nicely to tell me that putting out the can the night before is a bad idea (but my trash was always picked up very early) and then explained that ID thieves often go into a neighborhood late in the evening on the night before trash pick up and steal cans. They bring in an empty to put in the place of the one they take. Then they go up and down the street taking a can/leaving a can. They can go off with the can to a nearby parking log, go through the trash looking for papers with ID info, then they refill the can and go back to use it to replace another can. They can spend the whole night working like this and sometimes get enough to steal several IDs. Whether or not I was directly targeted or rather my recently departed husband, is unknown. That night after hanging up with him I went online and changed all my passwords. The next day I went to work closing out all the accounts that had been in just his name or in both our names and made sure to include reason for closing account as my husband's death. About a month later I had my banker request a copy of dh's credit report. Hey, his score was still good but all his credit cards were closed due to his death. I filed this report away in a safe place and reopened only the accounts I really needed in my name only. It was a LOT of work. I am now very dilligent about shredding mail as well. It is sad that the honest folk have to work so hard to avoid being taken advantage of.