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The Heavens have been crying

PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 10:15 am
by asirimarco
Some of you will remember that when we were in Vegas the end of November early December I mentioned that our oldest son was getting married. He and his, at that time girlfriend, had been together for 13 or 14 years. So they tied the knot Dec 1st.
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He called us Saturday morning - Jeni died Friday night. One minute she was cooking dinner, said she didn't feel well then she was gone. Heart attack brought on by massive bleeding in the stomach. She was 55. Their fifth month anniversary would be this coming weekend.
When we saw them in Vegas they were so excited about finally getting married. They talked about how much they had in common and how they were each others best best friends.
They both loved the outdoors, fishing, desert hiking and small towns. They worked together managing a motel in a little high desert town in California.
She also had tremendous talent. We have a copper mobile she made us and a woven copper wall hanging. She did beautiful macrame with shells.
She will be missed.
I talked to him last night and his daughter is with him and they were on their way to visit our youngest son. Dennis said he had to get away for all the reminders for a little while. It is going to be a very hard transition for him. He said he remembers how long it took him to get past the worst when his brother died.
And feeling sorry for myself - John's birthday (our son who died) is coming up in a couple of weeks - so this is always a hard time of year for me.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 10:31 am
by Carolinagal
Carol, I am sooo sorry !!! Its always so shocking when someone just dies like that, to those left behind. I know this will be so hard for all of your family, and this time of year, probably makes it harder to deal with.

Life hands out really hard knocks sometimes, but we're all here for you. I pray your son can find a way to deal with it, in time.

God Bless,
CArol

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 10:37 am
by retiredhappy
Oh Carol, my heart goes out to you and your son. I've never been sure what is hardest - someone going so fast or a loved one lingering in pain. Someday he will be able to look back on the good times.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 10:41 am
by kdmac
I am very sorry; it's so hard to comprehend. I will keep you all in prayer.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 10:49 am
by cpatinjones
I am very sorry to hear this news. Prayers for you and your family at this time.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 10:55 am
by Pooker
So, so sorry.

Pooker

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 11:06 am
by Redetotry
Oh Carol I am so sorry I can't imagine the shock of loosing someone so quickly. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and all of your family.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 11:14 am
by carold
The Heavens surely have been crying Carol, for you and your family. Eventually the good memories will win, but for now (((((hugs)))) to you all. carold

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 11:23 am
by Irmi
Carol, I am so sorry and am sending prayers to you & your family.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 11:54 am
by dayspring39
I hear your pain and your sons... so very sad for you all...
Kathleen

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 11:59 am
by AlmostThere
Carol,
Sending love and prayers to your family. Such a tragedy to loose someone so young.
(((((((Hugs)))))))

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 12:29 pm
by Liz
((((Carol)))) I'm so sorry to hear about Jeni. Praying for comfort for you and your son. We'll never understand the reasons why while we're in our earthly body, but some day when we see Him face-to-face, we will see clearly.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 12:36 pm
by Excel
Very sorry ... wishing all of you strength to get through this ...

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 12:45 pm
by Birdie
Carol my prayers for your family. May the good memories carry your son thru this time. Hold on to your faith and he will see you through.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 12:56 pm
by Rufflesgurl
Carol - So very sorry for this recent pain. Prayers for all of you especially your son.

Linda