by dpf » Sun Oct 27, 2013 8:45 am
I’m just going to sit here and stare into the fire for a while because I don’t think I’m up to a cheery good morning coffee. It’s been a really hard couple of days. My best friend’s (Missy) husband died very unexpectedly late Thursday afternoon. The visitation is today and service tomorrow. Randy the favorites of my all friend’s husbands. We were really quite close and sat together in waiting rooms waiting for results while Missy was in surgery. Every spring we spent many Sunday mornings together riding to Mitchell to help Missy at the greenhouse during her busy season. Can’t count the times that I would stop at their house to see Missy and she was off doing an errand and Randy was in his shop/man cave tinkering around on something. He’s always say just sit down and have a beer she’ll be back in a minute and we could sit and gab about anything. We were the same age born exactly a week apart…of course I always had to give him static that he was older than I. We had celebrated our two last milestone birthdays together and the joke among our families was when we turned 70 the party would have to start at 4:00 pm so we could go home and be in bed by 7:00 pm.
My heart is just aching for Missy, the kids and grandkids.
My mind works like lightning...one brilliant flash and it's gone.