About twenty years ago when I first started wearing my hair very short, someone asked my DH what he thought of my hair "that" short! His response, which was delivered with a straight face, "It's not like she asked my opinion." I learned a long time ago. If you want someone's option, ask. Don't ask, if you only want someone to agree with you, and you plan on doing it anyway
Nice hair, by the way....and easy to keep up with the RV life. If I want to spend time grooming something, I'll spend it with one of the dogs, not on me!