As I have pm'd quietjudy, it's only fair since I spoke to her in the open forum, that I apologize for what I said in the open forum. I mistakenly assumed things from her post, and we all know what it means to assume - (If you don't - divide the word into it's sylables and go from there).
She did enlighten me in what she said in her post - and I never realized that she had been a member with another name, then rejoined when she lost her password, thereby never having any posts under this name. That doesn't matter. I was wrong - and I hope she accepts my apology.
As I also told her in my pm - I think she needs to post more often, as she does have a point of view and opinions - and I, for one, appreciate learning and being enlightened - on any subject.
Thank you Judy for contacting me and letting me realize my mistakes. You say you are shy - but you are not in my eyes. When a subject close to your heart came up, you spoke your mind and then were castigated (by me) for doing so. No excuses here - and I hope you don't leave us, but that you do start posting more often.