Sandersmr wrote:Sorry if that came across snarky - it was not meant to be. If I had to sit around waiting on DBF, I would be waiting all the time. He works mostly weekends. Sometimes my aggravation with him sneaks out.
So I have to be self-sufficient with my trailer. I know the systems better than him; the only thing he can do better is back the thing up. But then he's a professional truck driver.
Eh...don't worry about it!
I have the same problem...but my aggravation is in my DHs face...no sneaking possible. But, I'm not allowed to "know" anything, because his "method" of explaining is to leave out important details, act exasperated if I ask pointed questions, and stopping talking to me altogether if I suggest a criticism. This has been going on for 31 years.
Anyway, I had renewed inspiration when I discovered this forum. I realize now that I'm not going to get anything straight unless I ask you guys, so please be patient with me, because unfortunately I still have to deal with this other person in my life.
That's cool that you know the systems better...was it just from hands on experience, or did you get good at it some other way...I mean in a profession...like your husband being a truck driver and all?