It was a long day yesterday by the time I was home I didn't do much but go through the house and to my room.... even forgot to turn down the pellet stove... I still don't remember turning it on...
I know that I didn't before the funeral or I don't think that I did
it's a good thing we have a large family there wasn't many there but then I guess she out lived many of her friends... I was just surprised that some that I expected weren't there... how ever the funeral was beautiful and under an hour (just) so it would have met her approval... we had three of the great grandchildren play violins with another granddaughter accompanying them... it was just going to be instrument but that morning they decided to have some of the great grandkids sing with the violins.... I think she would have enjoyed it then 5 of the grandkids did her life sketch... did really well... my brother did most of it... and another song was most of the grand and greats...we had beautiful arrangments she loved flowers... followed by a nice lunch then on to the cemetery which was about 45 mins away ... it was cold had walk through snow banks... thankfully my grandson's were very helpful and one of my brother's was thoughtful enough that he had a blanket in his truck it covered two of us... again a beautiful time some took the opportunity to share thoughts and memories...
had to laugh during the luncheon... my #2 dd came up front got everyone's attention and said their is a big problem (can't recall the exact word but this was closest I can come) going on and we need to solve it here and now so everyone that knows how grandma sneezed please sneeze and all complied AAAWWShit

then someone said nope done wrong we didn't sneeze three times so had to redo it ... she always said it was my dad that sneezed that way but can't with an room full of people to heard it differently ...
after the funeral we spent a bit of time at then house then went over to the motel where many were staying had pizza and visited some went swimming spending time with cousins their age..
my brother was going to have mom's car put in my name but because of mom's rapid decent he wasn't able to get her to sign the paper work not there is concerns about who legally owns the car and the insurance with it .... so guess for awhile I am not able to drive the car.. thought about bring the truck over but with it being a diesel they (brothers) are worried that it would cause issues with it due to the cold we are getting and I don't know if there is a plug in where I could plug it in... so guess till we figure out what to do I will have to rely on other means... usually my dd#2 has cars hanging around but right now they don't their daughter's car broke down today so they are trying to figure out transportation .... guess it will work out
thank you all for your thoughts
you all have a great day
sheila