Interesting thread about hair!! Thanks for all your comments, everyone, and thanks, Barbie for your insights!
My mother was a beautician, and she (LOL - at least as I remember, and often such memories are faulty!) was always doing something with my hair when I was a child and I didn't have much 'say' in the matter - be it perms (no matter how she did it, my straight hair would come out as a frizz pile), cutting it to the latest style (my hair was always short, it seemed she was cutting it about once per week, often a "razor cut" which meant little painful jerks on my hair as she cut it with a razor) to bleached blonde (admittedly, this one was a bit of a mutual decision - but when I returned to high school as a blonde after summer vacation, there were rumors that the mouse that was then me had somehow become "a lady of the night". That's how bleached blondes were thought of in those days - today it is totally different). Of course, with natural dark hair bleached blonde, and hair that grew fast as well, I needed a "touch up" about every two or three weeks.
I came to
HATE (with a vengence - LOL, can you tell?) having my scalp touched and having my hair messed with by someone other than myself (to this day, I still feel this way). My mother continued to "do my hair", despite my increasingly vociferous protests, until I was well into my late teens. Finally, when I was seventeen or so, one day I had had enough and tossed a major bitch, which was totally unlike me. Since I had always been a mouse, this tantrum was likely a major surprise to my Mom - but that was the end of the hair styling. Thank goodness!!
Since that time, for most of my life, I have always had long hair. I don't cut it, I don't tint it, I don't blow-dry it, I don't style it. I have very little grey, my hair is still mostly dark brown (which, at my age, I find surprising), and people often think I
must dye my hair, because it IS so dark. I don't.
The weird part is that if I go through a period when I am upset, I seem to get more grey. When the upset goes away, after a time, it seems that some of the 'new' grey goes away, too!
Barbie, have you ever heard of this happening?
My hair averages about "butt-length"
It seems not to go much longer than that - it does still grow (of course) but I guess with brushing and such the ends just randomly break off when it gets to be about butt length.
For me, long hair is easier than anything! I shampoo my hair every night while standing in the shower, I just bend over (when my hair is wet or dry - doesn't matter), brush it forward, do a quick braid, and pin the braid to the top of my head. Takes less than a minute, and I am good for the whole day! Gets my hair off my face, off my neck, hair on top of my head is cool in summer, warm in winter!
LOL. That's probably more than anyone wanted to know about my hair.
Anne