Velda, my heart breaks for you. It is such a difficult thing for you to deal with. Is there someone who can take over for a few hours each day so you can get a little sleep? You need to take care of yourself too since the days ahead will be more and more difficult for you. How is your son handling all this?
Martha, you sure had your challenges too with your husband and son passing to close together. Things like that take a long, long time to move on from. I hope you have a good support system for you not so good days.