I finally experimented with my "healthier" version of eggnog. I liked it a lot - somewhat lacking the richness of the heavy cream, but very tasty and well worth the savings in all the "bad" things...
I used
1/2 C. Egg Beaters
1/4 C. Skim Milk
1/4 C. Fat Free Half & Half
3 T. (1.25 oz.) Rum
Some Splenda
Some Vanilla

Oh, I just realized that the original recipe made 12 oz. servings, mine, approximately 8 oz., so my numbers would be increased by 50% (i.e., cals = ~300).
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